Sessions

Each of my sessions are individually tailored to your needs, your interests and your levels of play. The headings below are written with the intention to invoke thoughtful creativity rather than offer set session ‘types’. Feel free to discuss your specifics with me via email.

Spanking & CP for Punishment

Is your need to feel punished paramount to a particular scene or an on-going relationship? Many people feel that a spanking does not really begin until it hurts, either psychologically or physically. Conducted safely, these experiences can be intense, thought provoking and refreshing.

Reasons for punishments can vary drastically. These can be anything from a fabricated school report to a real-life issue you may wish to explore.

Contact me to discuss aspects of a punishment style scene, including (but not limited to):

  • Scolding & verbal admonishment.
  • Subtle humiliation.
  • Confessionals.
  • Spanking – OTK, bare hand and with implements (see below).
  • Caning.
  • Face slapping.
  • Bastinado (punishment of the feet).
  • Judicial Punishment(from second session).

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Spanking & CP for Enjoyment

Do you consider spanking or CP to be an enjoyable experience? Would you rather be spanked without fear of intense domination or humiliation? If this is the case, you may prefer to play in a light-hearted fashion and explore your interests without the level of intensity a punishment scenario might entail.

In short, it can be difficult for some people to view spanking or CP as a punishment because they enjoy it too much!

Contact me to arrange a light-hearted exploration of CP, including (but not limited to):

  • Introduction to new implements or positions.
  • Explanation of techniques and methods.
  • Spanking – OTK, bare hand and with implements (see below).
  • Caning.

Spanking & CP for Catharsis

Is your connection to spanking or CP more of an emotional force? For many people, it is not about pushing limits, being punished or receiving swiftly delivered pain. Instead, many people finding spanking and CP to be comparable to a hypnotic state. It can be a way of inducing relaxation and mindfulness through the application of gently-paced strokes.

Though it may not be scientifically proven, many feel spanking and CP offers the therapeutic qualities akin to a deep massage or hot bath with essential oils.

Contact me to explore a relaxing session, including (but not limited to):

  • Breathing techniques.
  • Physical relaxation techniques.
  • Gentle sensory deprivation / enhancement.
  • Spanking – OTK, bare hand and with implements (see below).
  • Sensory caning.

Implements

In addition to bare-handed spanking, I employ a wide variety of implements during sessions. The majority of my implements can be used in any session style with varying intensity.

Some of my clients prefer to leave implement selection to my own judgement, while some indicate certain implements they particularly ‘enjoy’ or would like to taste.

My implement collection is constantly growing and includes:

  • Various canes (including exquisite sets from The English Cane Company).
  • Leather straps.
  • Leather belts.
  • Riding crops.
  • Various slippers and sandals.
  • Wooden brushes (bath, clothes, hair, ebony etc).
  • Tawses.
  • Leather paddles.
  • Rubber paddles.
  • Wooden paddles.
  • Kitchen utensils.

Creative Role Play

Do you crave exploratory role play sessions? Is there a side of you you wish to indulge; perhaps an alter ego or a different side to your everyday persona? Maybe there’s a moment from your past you’d like to re-create? Whatever your reason for wanting to delve into a fantastical scenario, role play can add an exciting edge to a play session.

Contact me with ideas for a role play scenario, including (but not limited to):

  • Headmistress.
  • Strict Aunt.
  • Maternal figure.
  • Employer.
  • Girl next door.

Domestic Discipline

The vast majority of my sessions have a strong focus on Domestic Discipline, whether there are role play elements included or not.

I personally prefer domestic implements to those of a more BDSM nature and, where possible, I conduct all sessions from domestic premises rather than dungeons. I have a strong fascination with Discipline as a lifestyle as opposed to simply a characteristic of my play-time. Therefore, I thoroughly enjoy ‘real’ surroundings and circumstances during play.

Non-Impact Discipline

Discipline can be administered in various forms. It is not simply the physical impact which categorises Discipline, as some methods employ non-physical activity in favour of more humiliation-based techniques. Some people may be unable to engage in impact play for different reasons, either permanently or on a one-off occasion. In such circumstances, non-impact play can be utilised.

The following disciplinary tools can also be used alongside impact play to enhance the experience.

  • Scolding & verbal admonishment.
  • Subtle humiliation.
  • Confessionals.
  • Mouth soaping.
  • Corner time.
  • Line / essay writing.
  • School lessons.

Total Power Exchange (TPE)

Regardless as whether you identify as submissive or not, TPE can feel genuinely liberating no matter how you perceive yourself. To relinquish absolute control for a period of time – especially in today’s hectic world rife with responsibilities – affords you a unique opportunity to truly unwind.

There is no one successful formula for Power Exchange, although it does rely fairly heavily on your honesty and ability to communicate your feelings to me. It is not necessary, however, to panic about any inability to articulate your feelings, as this often speaks volumes in itself. Body language and facial expressions can provide substantial indicators of your feelings and needs.

A good portion of my sessions involve TPE, although it’s not always a necessary component to an enjoyable experience. Certainly for me, Power Exchange is about mental, emotional and spiritual submission of oneself. It requires placing a great deal of trust in me to guide you through your session safely.

Novices

Are you new to the world of spanking or CP? Have you yet to experience it in any form? Maybe you remember it vaguely from school and want to experience it again. Maybe you have never been spanked but have longed for it regardless. I welcome all novices and newbies to contact me for an introduction into the world of Discipline.

In this case, you may find the ‘Clients’ section of my website useful. Here you can find tips on how to contact me, how to arrange your session and what happens on the day. It is highly advisable, especially for inexperienced spankees, to read through these pages before applying for a session with me.